Wednesday, December 5, 2012

how do you deal with a spouse who has cancer?

Q. I lost my job and we have little income comming in and about a 3 months ago he was dignosed with diabetees and about month a ago my spouse was told he has cancer and they have to operate on him. how do I cope with all that is going on.and find a job at the same time. we have 5 kids and they are all acting differently with this news. how can I help them all and still keep up with the bills?

A. My heart goes out to you, as this is a very difficult siuation. It sounds as tho you have your hands full and you need help to deal with the practical things of life. First of all, do you belong to a church? Even if you have not been an active member, churches are networks of people that can provide you with free counseling for both you and your children, people to help with meals and other support networks. Second, as a nurse, I can tell you that when we care for patients, we are required to assess what kind of social service support the family needs -- counseling, financial assistance, etc. You said your husband would be undergoing surgery. DO contact the doctor or hospital involved in your spouses care, and ask to be put in contact with the medical social worker. They are compassionate and very helpful in a practical way. Last, DO contact your kids teachers and let them know what is happening. Schools are another source of help and support for your kids, from counseling, to after-school programs to lighten your load. And please, please, tell your friends and extended family what is going on in your life. It is not God's desire that you should face this time alone and He WILL provide the help and support you need if you reach out. I do know from experience what you are going thru, as 8 years ago, my husband was diagnosed with cancer as well. My kids were young, and it was a very scary time. But God did meet us, provided help and support and my husband is still here with me today. I will be praying for you. Good luck.


how can i make my penis erect as a diabetic case?
Q. i want a medicine that can help diabetees have hard penises.

A. Get your sugars under control then you shouldn't have a problem. I'm 55 and had diabetes for 22 years as long as my sugars are under control there is no problem, but sugars over 200 will start to give problems. Take better care of yourself, and you will notice a difference.


What fruite helps with litle children for reducing the chance of diabetees?
Q. I just want to know what fruit helps lower the chance of getting diabetes

A. None. By "litle children" I'm presuming that you mean young children. Young children develop type 1 diabetes, but this is both genetic and must have an outside influence (environmental factors) for it to happen. Diet has absolutely no effect on whether this type of diabetes will develop or not.


What fruite helps with litle children for reducing the chance of diabetees?
Q. I just want to know what fruit helps lower the chance of getting diabetes

A. No one particular fruit.
Type 1 diabetes can't be prevented. Doctors can't even tell who will get it and who won't.

Type 2 diabetes can sometimes be prevented. Encourage your child to eat healthy foods, get plenty of physical activity and maintain a healthy weight.





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